If you feel like "walking on eggshells" all the time, is it relationship?

my ex husband made me feel that way, took it so long, then bang! one day i was gone, you should not have to live that way, oh yeh, took my time deciding what i should do, but when i did, it was over, now i,m as free as a bird, that,s the way i wanna live, not walking on eggshell,s, i don,t have to now, good luck guy!